BBQ- Pulled Pork Sandwiches
Coleslaw
Tailgate Beans
Crab Stuffed Mushrooms
Knowing that I could theoretically eat all day with grazing being a major potential, I decided to make myself a small plate of the Mushrooms, and then limit my grazing to potentially healthy options. I put aside a meal's worth of the BBQ and the Beans for later in the week. I doubted the Mushrooms would be a good leftover, so one big one was my serving.
Only three people at the party knew of me and the LapBand.
I had 15 people RSVP and 29 showed up! Actually- make that 30 as one straggler showed up in the 4th quarter with a tan.
At 5:40, there was NO ONE here yet. I was wondering if I would be eating 7 pounds of leftover BBQ for months. 5:45 Three showed. 5:50 Two more, 5:55 NEARLY EVERYBODY ELSE in one mob.
Just as kickoff was about to happen, my coworker calls and is lost and upset. It took me 20 minutes to navigate her by phone to get here. So I finally got to watch the game with 6 minutes left in the first quarter.
Once I got everyone there, I love to "host" from the bar. I moved from there only occasionally. I had decided that in my spot, I would have just "good" snacks near me. So I had a Bengals helmet with BAKED TOSTITOS SCOOPS and Bubba's Black Bean Dip. I also had a tray with lunchmeat, carrots, cheese, with ranch dip. I kept the sweets far away. In fact, one person made a STADIUM cake, and then I asked for no more desserts to be brought when I sent out the invites. ( Usually there would be way too many cookies, as in even I was thinking that there were too many cookies in the olden days)
Well, I had a GREAT TIME. I ate a bit more than I should, but again, perhaps 1/3 to 1/2 of what I would have in the past. A few folks had not seen the new me and were amazed. I was surrounded by friends and enjoying my life. I danced at half time to Purple Rain by Prince with a beautiful girl, I danced after the game with two pretty women to KD Lang covering Neil Young's "After the Gold Rush " and "Helpless". A few of the guys were jealous of me dancing with the women, and a few of the women were jealous of the women who got to dance with me!
Erica did decide that she missed me. I had not enjoyed life the last few years, and yesterday I did! She was so happy to see a healthy JC singing, dancing and laughing- enjoying my life again. There is going to be a lot more singing dancing and laughing in my future!
When the night ended, we had a new twist to the evening- I had a bunch of disposable Tupperwares and FILLED THEM UP AND GAVE THEM TO FOLKS AS THEY LEFT. I still have tons of leftovers, and it will take a long time to finish them. But I gave away much more- that never happened in the olden days!
All in all, it was just so nice to enjoy life again. The few folks that asked what I was snacking on were completely satisfied by me saying I had made a supply of healthy choices available to myself. And I was completely satisfied as well!